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Derek
Cudmore on Tue 11 Oct 2005.
For many years he worked at BStE TA Centre and came to
SACF camps assisting the MTO.
At his funeral on Mon 24 Oct 05 at Rushmere St Andrew
Church, Ipswich, SACF were represented by SSIs Roger Austin and Donna Catt, Capt John Catt and Maj John L Raybould TD.
Eulogy by Lt Bob Becker RN:
'I first met Derek when I was around 14 yrs old so
I've known him for some time and grew up knowing
him. Derek was the easiest man to know, straightforward
and uncomplicated.
Derek was modest, unassuming and giving; his roots were
of the country and of a previous age - in many ways an
age of innocence. To this extent he displayed some
admirable qualities - his gentle sense of fun, his
kind-hearted view of everything around him and his
affection for his family and friends.
Here today we may still feel our loss, in part feel
assailed by grief, as is natural. But Derek was a man
who cared not for fuss, but looked for peacefulness and
happiness around him. So we should therefore perhaps not
be sad but celebrate a life that was long and one that
was well spent. A life in which Derek had the rare
fortune in his middle years to begin again, when he
found not only the woman with whom he would see out his
life, but acquired step-children and family, and by and
by, with the more recent additions to the family, new
friends whose company, and in turn, whose children, he
cherished so much.
There was no extravagance or pretence about Derek. So
long as he had his Jane, his home, his garden, his
family friends and football, he had everything. He was
fortunate in that he had achieved all that he desired
and never lost sight of how happy he was in his home
with my mother.
When Derek was ill, he was more ill than many realised.
He fought his illness the way he lived his life. No
fuss, no drama, without sound or fury, but instead with
dignity and calmly. His was a quiet courage. And towards
the end, whilst we thought that we understood the
seriousness of his condition more than Derek did, we now
see that Derek knew more than we realised. But to the
end, he remained thoughtful and considerate, thinking
only of shielding Jan from the inevitable. In the final
analysis, he probably was afraid, but he kept this from
his dearest love, his best friend, his wife. As he was
wont to say, particularly in their last times together,
he loved her more than she would ever know, but she
knows.
Derek was a devoted husband, a loyal step-father, and a
dear, dear friend with his innocent yet organized and
open approach to life, his sense of humour, his personal
slant on the English language, his simple but sensitive
values and the joy and the affection he received through
his friendships.
These are the things that counted and still count. Derek
would not want us to grieve too much, or be sad too
long, so it is fitting that we remember him from time to
time for the lovely man that he was.
Perhaps we may remember him on a Saturday afternoon when
Ipswich win - though I think he deserves more often than
that.
Perhaps we may remember him when family are gathered
together.
Or, simply, one may remember him on a quiet afternoon
when alone in the garden - because that’s where he
would be.' JLR |
SI Sid
Hale in Nov 2004. Sid, a robust figure,
served with Suffolk ACF for many years both as a Cadet
and Adult Leader. Based at the Sudbury Detachment, he
contributed sterling service not only to the Detachment
but also in encouraging Football as a sport in the ACF.
Sid retired from active service in Suffolk ACF in 1998 .
His funeral, on 15 Nov 2004, at St Gregory’s Church,
Sudbury, was very well attended. Representatives of
Suffolk ACF were in attendance to pay their respects. JLR |
Mrs
Jenny Hammond
of Felixstowe, aged 51, on 24 February 2008, after a short but tragic
illness. The wife of Falklands Veteran SI Mick Hammond, they had been
married for 19 years and had two sons, Tom 18 and Ben 10. Jenny regularly
assisted at the Felixstowe RA Detachment and was well loved by all who knew
her. The
funeral, conducted by our Padre David Flower RAChD, was attended by dozens
of former and serving Cadets and Adults.
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Sgt John William Frederick
Hunns on 24 Feb 2008, aged 70, after a long illness, bravely
borne. A former Suffolk soldier, he then served with HQ 6 R Anglian and
the Home Service Force in Bury St Edmunds, regularly attending Suffolk Army
Cadet Force camps.
Below is the eulogy by Captains Robert and Christine Campbell (Salvation
Army):
‘Born on 3rd June 1937, John was the eldest child of John and Beryl who then
went on to have three daughters, Kathleen, Tilly and Mabel. When he left
school he first worked for Marlow’s of Brandon before being called up to do
his tour of National Service. I think it would be fair to say that from that
moment on, his life changed and after he completed his National Service with
the Parachute Regiment, he signed up as a regular with the Suffolk 1st
Battalion and served with distinction, as his role in the capture of the
Eoka leader in Cyprus, which is well documented, reveals. He stayed with the
Suffolks for twelve years before leaving the army and working at the Mount
Pleasant Post Office in London before eventually moving to Thetford with his
family and to live in the same house in Tudor Close for the next 40 years
where he raised his children, Pauline, John, Linda and Wendy.
However his army days were not quite done, for like many men who have served
in the armed forces there is an ‘esprit de corps’ unlike any other that can
be found in civilian life and so John joined up as a Territorial serving
with Headquarter Company, 6th Battalion the Royal Anglian Regiment, in Bury
St Edmunds, for a further 10 years and so completing his 22 years of
service. Of course, the TA was only part time, one evening a week, weekends,
exercises and camps, but it demanded much commitment, dedication,
determination and sacrifice for as was often the case, having been on
weekend manoeuvres and having had very little sleep, John would be back at
work Monday morning and could be seen working on the building of Staniforth
School and later working for many years for Blythe and Hazel Furniture
Removers as well assisting Suffolk Army Cadets at Annual Camp.
Finally, he retired, if that’s the right word and became very actively
involved in the Regimental Museum in Bury St Edmunds and the comment has
been made that ‘there wasn’t a screw hole in the building John hadn’t
drilled’. Likewise we can say the same here about our small charity shop as
John set about putting up shelves, fixing hooks, moving, lifting and doing
any other little task that needed attention. Nothing was too much trouble
and John’s help and willingness to help was really appreciated. Even when he
was unwell, nothing would stop him from doing all he could and he was
determined to continue to the very end and just a few days before he passed
away, he insisted he come here so that he could spend some time just sitting
in the coffee shop sharing an occasional word and watching the world go by.
As I said, we all see different parts of the mosaic that was John Hunns, his
commitment, his determination, his loyalty, his friendship, his spirit but
the one thing we all know is that he was loved, he was respected and he was
well liked by all who knew him and he will be sadly missed by many.’
RC and CC
Below is the eulogy by Maj Stan Bullock MBE:
‘It is over 50 years since John and I met up and in the usual serviceman’s
way we continued to meet and drift apart until I retired to become QM of the
TA Bn at Bury St Edmunds and there was John still in uniform working at the
same location.
John was a dedicated soldier and as far as he was concerned it mattered not
who he served with or in what capacity he served, always providing his very
best at all times.
John’s father served in the Suffolk Regiment. There is a picture of him and
John’s mother in the museum; his father dressed in uniform on their wedding
day, something John was so very proud of and we all knew he was a very, very
proud Suffolk soldier for all of his life.
Always very smartly turned out, especially for Minden Day, he really came
into his own dressed in a blazer with The Suffolk Badge very prominently
displayed, flannels, black very shiny shoes, black beret with roses and of
course medals. John loved Minden day and would be there for the preparation
along with his colleagues on the Saturday morning and again early Sunday
ready for the grand day and he was so willing to do anything, talk to anyone
or help on any task he was asked. John loved to be with serving or
ex-servicemen and enjoyed being a member of The Royal Anglian Club and of
course his very special Suffolk Regiment Old Comrades Association. He would
be sat at the bar on the 4th Tues of the month with his coke, always willing
to help and even would call Bingo if asked, but the one thing he did not do
was play Bingo ! He attended all the various functions that the Suffolk OCA
organised bringing sister Tilley along for company and they always enjoyed
the occasions.
John attended many of the Veterans Trips organised by the Association,
travelling through France and Holland and into Belgium. He was always ready
to march and parade as and when told. First on the coach and first up in the
mornings, assisting the Old boys or anyone else he could help. John loved
those trips and made many very good friends who all greeted him on arrival
and made a great fuss on his departure.
I know John had a very difficult time as a young father but so typical of
him he carried out the task lovingly and, with pride, he would talk of his
family and would gladly exchange news with others of their activities and
travels.
During the latter years John became very involved in the refurbishment of
the Regimental Museum at the Keep. He, with a valiant few, would work for
hours drilling up to 100 holes in those massive walls with a re-chargeable
drill that he would take home and recharge for the next onslaught. Tim
Davies actually let him have one day off during that period as John was
having new windows fitted. He was happy.
Regrettably, as we are aware, John became very ill over the last year and
although suffering considerably continued to attend the museum for his
duties. He refused to admit that he was ill and we all let him think he had
fooled us. My friend John Hunns, a loving father, a Soldier of the Queen a
true friend to one and all. A gentleman who was never heard to say a bad
word about anyone, ‘Stabilis’ was his motto.’ HSB
A
guard of honour, all wearing Suffolk ties, formed up in the Salvation Army
Citadel in Thetford. The coffin was draped with the Suffolk flag on which
rested John’s beret and medals. In attendance was the black draped standard
of the Bury St Edmunds Branch of the Royal British Legion. Nearly £400 was
collected for the Royal Anglian Regimental Museum in Bury St Edmunds. Col
Tony Taylor, his 6 V Bn R Anglian Regt CO, Maj Stan Bullock MBE,
representing the Suffolk Regt and 6 V Bn R Anglian Regt, Maj John L Raybould
TD and SSI Christine Forsdike, representing Suffolk ACF, attended the
funeral. The hymns were 'Onward Christian soldiers', 'Abide with me and 'The
day thou gavest, Lord, is ended'. He departed to the tune of the Regimental
March of The Suffolk Regiment, Speed The Plough. John is survived by his
children, grand children and great grand children. JLR |
Capt
Dougie James
of Ipswich died in October 2007 aged 73. A
former WO1 Royal Anglian Staff Clerk, he then served for 21 years with
Suffolk ACF as County HQ Admin Offr, retiring in 1998 as a Captain. Known as
‘Dougie’ he was born and educated in India. At his funeral, well attended by
many serving and retired Royal Anglian and SACF adults/officers, the
black-draped Suffolk Regiment standards of the Bury St Edmunds and Ipswich
Branches were carried by Colin Smith and Taff Gillingham. His Union Flag
draped coffin entered to the playing of the song ‘Blueberry Hill’ and was
followed by his medals borne on a red velvet cushion. In a moving service we
listened to memories of their childhood in India, recalled by his sister
Daphne Palesky, and heard the Stevie Wonder song ‘I just called to say I
love you’ with the reading of the collects of the Suffolk and Royal Anglian
Regiments. Dougie departed to ‘Speed the Plough’. He is survived by his wife
Iris, his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Below is the eulogy by Major Stan Bullock MBE:
‘Clerk extraordinaire, Soldier of Talent, Friend and Saviour to many but
most of all husband and father devoted. I know very little of Doug’s early
life apart from knowing he met and fell in love with Iris at a very early
age and kept that love and adoration for the whole of his life.
Doug joined 1 Suffolk in Trieste in 1953 and I joined them in Wuppertal in
1955.
We did not know each other then but as the years went by we became serving
friends which is so very different from an ordinary friendship. It is a
friendship for life and has more bonding owing to the various actions and
activities that one has gone through. As time went by with amalgamations and
many moves around the World promotions were achieved and marriages and
families appeared, the friendship between those families also grew and
strengthened. Every member of our group of friends celebrated all the
occasions that families celebrated from births and christenings to marriages
and anniversaries Parties were held at homes and in various Messes where
each and every one of us joined in and enjoyed the occasions. Doug was
always there sitting quietly watching what was happening and making jokes
about one and all. Drinks were one of his favourite tricks. He violently
refused to buy the first round and we would claim he ‘Was a tight Git’ but
then he would insist on buying his share and always the last round. Our
group being Roy and Pat Sharpe, John and Aura Watson, John and Norma Reid
and many others just to name a few’ with Jenny and I being in the group
also. A wonderful time to be living and to have such lovely friends.
Doug was very clerically minded and became installed in the Hall of fame
(The Orderly) room within the Bn HQ as a clerk and very quickly became a
fount of knowledge regarding military law (and customs) to all of us not so
intellectually minded. He had a memory bank that was absolutely phenomenal
as he could recite regimental number Christian names and enlistment dates
from memory of nearly all of the Bn members especially mine as he always
responded to my phone calls with my regimental number and enlistment date!
His promotions through his service were highly deserved as he worked very
hard for them.
Doug served in Trieste BAOR Cyprus Berlin British Guiana Aden and NI. In
addition to various UK postings. Doug was awarded the GSM for Cyprus and the
1962 GSM with clasps for South Arabia and The Radfan and various tours of
Northern Ireland,.
On leaving the Regular Forces Doug’s Military Discharge book was recorded
with ‘Military Service Exemplary’. An entry that was so very highly
deserved.
The word exemplary was to follow him for the rest of his life as a husband,
father, grandfather and to his great joy, a great-grandfather - he doted on
his daughters, grandchildren and his great grand-children.
We would gather at Regimental gatherings and Doug could be seen in the
middle of the groups of colleagues, chatting and retelling stories as good
as the rest of them. His memory would outstrip all of the others and roars
of laughter could be heard coming from the group. Doug loved attending the
reunions as did Iris. They would appear with various members of the family
and proudly move around chatting to all of the groups.
On leaving the Regular Forces Doug and Iris took on the Halberd Inn in
Ipswich as landlord and landlady and what a fantastic job they made of it.
For eight and a half years they ran the place with humour, efficiency, and
most of all, a friendship for all and sundry. Needless to say they were
sadly missed when they left.
Meanwhile, Doug had become a member of Suffolk ACF and was commissioned 2Lt
on 8 Nov 1989, promoted Captain on 22 Oct 98. His wealth of knowledge on
military matters was a tremendous benefit to the ACF and his requirements
for high standards stood the ACF well in all of their various inspections.
Doug retired on reaching the age of 65 and again became very involved with
his beloved family.
Wherever Doug worked or served he was an asset to not only his beloved
Regiment but to his Queen, country and the public and will be very sorely
missed. All who came into contact with him respected him and, in many cases,
loved him dearly.
Please, after the blessing at the end of the service the Regimental March of
The Suffolk Regiment will be played. Normally we would stand for this item
but Iris has asked that we bend the rules and clap our hands to the base
drum as we celebrate the life of Dougie.
As the bearer party leaves the Church please turn and face the aisle and pay
your respects to an exemplary person.’ JLR and Maj Stan Bullock MBE
Afternote Apr
08: From the Dec 07 'Castle' (by Lt Col Dan Baily):
I regret I did not know until I saw the notice of his death that Douglas
James had served as an admin officer with the TA for many years.
But I knew him years before that (can it really be 40?) when he was Orderly
Room Clerk and then Orderly Room Sgt of the 1st Bn after we had returned
from Aden to Celle in 1965-68. At the time I was the Intelligence 0fficer
and then Adjutant to the late Lt Col Tim Creasey, a staff-training education
in itself (partly going back to Creasey's own post-war experience as
Adjutant to the legendary and awe-inspiring Lt Col 'Uncle Bob' Turner-Cain,
CO 1 R Norfolk in Schloss Neuhaus).
CSgt James was a real tower of strength in the key job as Chief Clerk,
especially to me in those days before there was a JDSC (Junior Defence Staff
College) to teach young officers 'joined-up writing' and before Asst
Adjutants became the fashion. No PCs on every desk either. Everything was
handwritten, typed onto 'skins' by Lillian (Mrs John/QM Tech) Bedford on an
immense Adler manual typewriter, checked by the Adjutant and then by the
Chief Clerk and run-off on the Gestetner duplicator. Ah, those were the days
! I can still remember the reproachful but triumphant look on the Chief's
face when he could come back with an error he had found. Doug took immense
pride in the Battalion and everything he did at its hub. He was immensely
conscientious and painstaking but never 'boring' or pompous about his work
and he had a sardonic sense of humour that leavened the weight of the
never-ending bumph in the trays. It was always good to see him first thing
in the morning (he always seemed to be first in) and I for one will value my
memories of him. |
 Aaron McClure on
23 Aug 2007, aged 19. He was a cadet in Ipswich Guards Det, C Coy,
2003-2006, and left as a LCpl to join the R Anglian Regt. He was a great lad
with lots of life, into sports.
From the MoD site: It is with profound sadness that the Ministry of Defence
must confirm the deaths of Ptes Aaron James McClure,
Robert Graham Foster and John Thrumble from 1st Bn The Royal Anglian Regt
who were killed in Afghanistan on Thu 23 Aug 2007.
The 3 soldiers, all serving in 7 Pl B 'SUFFOLK' Coy, were killed when the
platoon came under accurate fire from a determined Taliban force during a
fighting patrol to disrupt enemy activity and reassure the local population
north west of Kajaki, in northern Helmand Province, southern Afghanistan.
During the ensuing fire fight air support was requested from 2 US F15
aircraft to engage the enemy positions and it was then that a bomb
tragically struck the compound where the 3 soldiers and their section were
located. An emergency helicopter was tasked to assist, however, sadly Ptes
McClure, Foster and Thrumble were pronounced dead at the scene.
2 other soldiers were also injured in the incident. The injured soldiers
were evacuated by helicopter to the medical facility at Camp Bastion for
treatment.
The events surrounding the incident are subject to an investigation.
Pte Aaron James McClure, aged 19, from
Ipswich, nicknamed 'Troy', enlisted into the British Army in March 2006 and
having completed training as a rifleman at the Infantry Training Centre
Catterick, joined the 1st Bn, The Royal Anglian Regt in Oct the same year.
He had recently participated in exercises in the UK and Kenya.
As a rifleman in 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy Pte McClure had been serving in
Helmand Province in Afghanistan since Mar 2007 on his first operational
tour. During this time he had been involved in numerous fierce engagements
with the Taliban frequently at close range, often in dangerous situations
and in the most demanding of environments. 'Troy' quickly established
himself as a highly capable, motivated and brave soldier.
His quiet, unassuming nature was founded on an inner confidence that saw him
excel at a very early stage in his career; he was a rising star within the
Coy who had a bright future. Widely regarded as a first-rate soldier,
notable for his complete reliability and commitment, it was in contact with
the enemy where he displayed his true ability working selflessly to support
the remainder of his platoon without complaint; characteristics he will be
remembered for. Pte McClure's friendly, modest exterior belied a soldier who
was focused, physically and mentally tough, and intent on doing the utmost
for his team-mates. His presence will be missed immensely by all within the
Company.
Lieutenant-Colonel Stuart Carver, Commanding Officer 1st Bn the Royal Anglian
Regiment, said: 'At 19 years-old, Pte Aaron McClure was already a veteran of
over forty engagements with the enemy. It is tragic that where the Taliban
had failed, it was an accident that has taken him from us. Loyal, hard
working and highly professional, he constantly surpassed the standards
expected, and his loss is a bitter blow to the whole Battalion. We will
never forget him, and our thoughts are with his family and friends at this
most difficult of times.'
Maj Tony Borgnis, Officer Commanding B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Pte McClure,
although relatively new to the Coy, was an exceptionally professional and
highly motivated soldier. He rapidly established himself as one of the
hardest working and most dependable soldiers I have. He consistently carried
out even the most demanding tasks to the highest of standards. His actions
epitomised the very best qualities of the British Infantry, in general, and
the Royal Anglian Regt in particular. He was a true and loyal friend to all
those he served with, always placing the needs of others above his own. His
loss is tragic and deeply felt by all members of the Company. Our thoughts
and prayers are with his family and loved ones.'
Lt George Seal-Coon, Pl Comd 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said:
'Pte Aaron McClure was a rising star of the platoon. As a soldier, he
displayed the greatest levels of professionalism and dedication in the most
arduous and dangerous of environments. As a friend he was utterly selfless
and reliable. His strength of character was ever an inspiration to those who
worked and lived alongside him. We are all devastated by his loss.'
Sgt 'Woody' Woodrow, Pl Sgt, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Pte 'Troy' McClure
was an amazingly robust soldier with potential beyond his young years. He
was always helpful and dependable in the thick of things. We will miss him
deeply and he will never be forgotten.'
LCpl Stevie Veal, Section Commander, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Troy, as
most people knew him, was a smart and intelligent soldier whose aspirations
inspired his peers and even his commander. He was more than capable of
becoming a fine junior non commissioned officer, which is what he wanted
above all. He was a model for the British Army. We will always remember him,
and it was more than a privilege to serve with him.'
Pte Aaron 'Ronnie' Barker, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'McClure, known to
most of his mates as 'Troy'' was a hard working and very determined member
of 7 Pl who would 'work his socks off' to achieve the best results he could.
'Troy' had a lot of ambition and would have gone far in the Army. He will be
missed very much by all of us in 7 Pl and the Coy. Rest in peace mate and my
thoughts are with your family.'
Aaron's family said: 'Aaron was a wonderful son to Lorraine and Karl and grandson to Vi, Allan,
Linda and Lenny. He was loved by his aunts, uncles, cousins and numerous
friends alike. He was also looked up to by his brothers, Lewis, Daniel and
Ryan.
'Aaron loved the army life to which he was dedicated and had aspirations for
promotion. He was never happier than when with family who knew Aaron as a
bright, happy, handsome lad who would do anything for anyone.
'Aaron was a light in our lives now extinguished, always loved, never
forgotten.
'Our thoughts and prayers are with other families affected by this tragic
incident.'
Ipswich Mayor, Inga Lockington, said: 'The whole town was thinking of the 19-year-old and his family. As the Mayor of Ipswich I send my condolences to
the family and friends of Aaron McClure who tragically died as a result of
friendly fire.'
Accompanied by a lone piper, his funeral was attended by dozens of former
and serving Cadets and Adults as well as many Senior Officers, NCOs and
soldiers from the 1st Bn the Royal Anglian Regt.
Capt Ron McDaid, JLR, Ipswich East Anglian Daily
Times and MoD |
Col
Alan Munro TD
on 9 December 2007, aged 80 - 'one of a kind' .
Tributes have been paid to a 'kind, energetic man who loved life and would
do anything for anybody'.
Although he was probably best known in Bury St Edmunds as the former head
postmaster of the town's post office, Col Munro was also involved in a
number of clubs and organisations, including the Rotary Club, East Anglia
Parachute Regimental Association, Post Office Veterans, the Fellowship of
Head Post Masters and Friends of Kevelaer, Bury's twin town in Germany.
His wife Sue, 55, said: 'He always had everybody in tears with laughter. He
was an excellent organiser. Someone wrote on a card: "Wherever he is, he
will be organising something". He was always busy doing something. He loved
life - he was one of a kind - a real character. There was quite an age gap
between us and someone once asked why I was married to him. I said because
it was never boring. He was always on the go, doing something, telling me
about something he had done or someone he had met. It's amazing how many
people he knew. He was very much an outside person and very sociable.'
As
a Friend of Kevelaer, twin town of Bury St Edmunds, and with the help of RAF
Honington, he managed to export a traditional-style telephone box to the
German city.
Col Munro retired 20 years ago but kept very active, working out in the gym
5 times a week, as well as enjoying walking in the Lake District.
After his WW2 service ended in 1949 with the 5th Scottish Parachute Bn, Col
Munro served with two TA regiments, rising to 2nd in command of the 2nd Bn
Lancastrian Volunteers and later as the commanding officer of the 4th
Volunteer Bn, Queen's Lancashire Regiment.
Col Munro also represented the Army as a marksman in rifle contests across
Europe and America.
He is survived by his wife Sue and children Andrew, Richard and Deborah.
(In 2007 we met after a gap of many years at the Annual SACF Dinner, right,
and he didn't seem a day older - though he was 80 ! Alan was President of
the Rotary Club of Bury St Edmunds 1994-5 and latterly Attendance Officer.
Oddly, the SACF Webmaster was President of the Rotary Club of Watton and
District 2000-2001 and is now the Attendance Officer of the RC of Beccles.
We laughed as we compared our ailments - my 2 hearing aids, false teeth and
a plethora of pills.)
To Sue and the family, we send our regrets at the passing of a fine man, a
former Commandant of Suffolk ACF.
Lt Ted Warren of Suffolk ACF informs us
Col Munro was also President of the Suffolk branch of the Parachute Regiment
Association.
Our SACF Stand for the County Standards was presented by Col Alan, right.With
acknowledgement to Paul Bloomfield of the Bury Free Press newspaper.
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