Suffolk Army Cadet Force
   

We regret to report the deaths of the following and we offer our deep sympathy to the bereaved families:

 

Derek Cudmore on Tue 11 Oct 2005.
For many years he worked at BStE TA Centre and came to SACF camps assisting the MTO.
At his funeral on Mon 24 Oct 05 at Rushmere St Andrew Church, Ipswich, SACF were represented by SSIs Roger Austin and Donna Catt, Capt John Catt and Maj John L Raybould TD.

Eulogy by Lt Bob Becker RN:
'I first met Derek when I was around 14 yrs old so I've  known him for some time and grew up knowing him. Derek was the easiest man to know, straightforward and uncomplicated.
Derek was modest, unassuming and giving; his roots were of the country and of a previous age - in many ways an age of innocence. To this extent he displayed some admirable qualities - his gentle sense of fun, his kind-hearted view of everything around him and his affection for his family and friends.
Here today we may still feel our loss, in part feel assailed by grief, as is natural. But Derek was a man who cared not for fuss, but looked for peacefulness and happiness around him. So we should therefore perhaps not be sad but celebrate a life that was long and one that was well spent.  A life in which Derek had the rare fortune in his middle years to begin again, when he found not only the woman with whom he would see out his life, but acquired step-children and family, and by and by, with the more recent additions to the family, new friends whose company, and in turn, whose children, he cherished so much.
There was no extravagance or pretence about Derek. So long as he had his Jane, his home, his garden, his family friends and football, he had everything. He was fortunate in that he had achieved all that he desired and never lost sight of how happy he was in his home with my mother.
When Derek was ill, he was more ill than many realised. He fought his illness the way he lived his life. No fuss, no drama, without sound or fury, but instead with dignity and calmly. His was a quiet courage. And towards the end, whilst we thought that we understood the seriousness of his condition more than Derek did, we now see that Derek knew more than we realised. But to the end, he remained thoughtful and considerate, thinking only of shielding Jan from the inevitable. In the final analysis, he probably was afraid, but he kept this from his dearest love, his best friend, his wife. As he was wont to say, particularly in their last times together, he loved her more than she would ever know, but she knows.
Derek was a devoted husband, a loyal step-father, and a dear, dear friend with his innocent yet organized and open approach to life, his sense of humour, his personal slant on the English language, his simple but sensitive values and the joy and the affection he received through his friendships.
These are the things that counted and still count. Derek would not want us to grieve too much, or be sad too long, so it is fitting that we remember him from time to time for the lovely man that he was.
Perhaps we may remember him on a Saturday afternoon when Ipswich win - though I think he deserves more often than that.
Perhaps we may remember him when family are gathered together.
Or, simply, one may remember him on a quiet afternoon when alone in the garden - because that’s where he would be.'    JLR

SI Sid Hale in Nov 2004. Sid, a robust figure, served with Suffolk ACF for many years both as a Cadet and Adult Leader. Based at the Sudbury Detachment, he contributed sterling service not only to the Detachment but also in encouraging Football as a sport in the ACF. Sid retired from active service in Suffolk ACF in 1998 .
His funeral, on 15 Nov 2004, at St Gregory’s Church, Sudbury, was very well attended. Representatives of Suffolk ACF were in attendance to pay their respects.  JLR

Mrs Jenny Hammond of Felixstowe, aged 51, on 24 February 2008, after a short but tragic illness. The wife of Falklands Veteran SI Mick Hammond, they had been married for 19 years and had two sons, Tom 18 and Ben 10. Jenny regularly assisted at the Felixstowe RA Detachment and was well loved by all who knew her. The
funeral, conducted by our Padre David Flower RAChD, was attended by dozens of former and serving Cadets and Adults.    JLR

Sgt John William Frederick Hunns on 24 Feb 2008, aged 70, after a long illness, bravely borne. A former Suffolk soldier, he then served with HQ 6 R Anglian and
the Home Service Force in Bury St Edmunds, regularly attending Suffolk Army Cadet Force camps.

Below is the eulogy by Captains Robert and Christine Campbell (Salvation Army):
‘Born on 3rd June 1937, John was the eldest child of John and Beryl who then went on to have three daughters, Kathleen, Tilly and Mabel. When he left school he first worked for Marlow’s of Brandon before being called up to do his tour of National Service. I think it would be fair to say that from that moment on, his life changed and after he completed his National Service with the Parachute Regiment, he signed up as a regular with the Suffolk 1st Battalion and served with distinction, as his role in the capture of the Eoka leader in Cyprus, which is well documented, reveals. He stayed with the Suffolks for twelve years before leaving the army and working at the Mount Pleasant Post Office in London before eventually moving to Thetford with his family and to live in the same house in Tudor Close for the next 40 years where he raised his children, Pauline, John, Linda and Wendy.
However his army days were not quite done, for like many men who have served in the armed forces there is an ‘esprit de corps’ unlike any other that can be found in civilian life and so John joined up as a Territorial serving with Headquarter Company, 6th Battalion the Royal Anglian Regiment, in Bury St Edmunds, for a further 10 years and so completing his 22 years of service. Of course, the TA was only part time, one evening a week, weekends, exercises and camps, but it demanded much commitment, dedication, determination and sacrifice for as was often the case, having been on weekend manoeuvres and having had very little sleep, John would be back at work Monday morning and could be seen working on the building of Staniforth School and later working for many years for Blythe and Hazel Furniture Removers as well assisting Suffolk Army Cadets at Annual Camp.
Finally, he retired, if that’s the right word and became very actively involved in the Regimental Museum in Bury St Edmunds and the comment has been made that ‘there wasn’t a screw hole in the building John hadn’t drilled’. Likewise we can say the same here about our small charity shop as John set about putting up shelves, fixing hooks, moving, lifting and doing any other little task that needed attention. Nothing was too much trouble and John’s help and willingness to help was really appreciated. Even when he was unwell, nothing would stop him from doing all he could and he was determined to continue to the very end and just a few days before he passed away, he insisted he come here so that he could spend some time just sitting in the coffee shop sharing an occasional word and watching the world go by. As I said, we all see different parts of the mosaic that was John Hunns, his commitment, his determination, his loyalty, his friendship, his spirit but the one thing we all know is that he was loved, he was respected and he was well liked by all who knew him and he will be sadly missed by many.’   RC and CC

Below is the eulogy by Maj Stan Bullock MBE:
‘It is over 50 years since John and I met up and in the usual serviceman’s way we continued to meet and drift apart until I retired to become QM of the TA Bn at Bury St Edmunds and there was John still in uniform working at the same location.
John was a dedicated soldier and as far as he was concerned it mattered not who he served with or in what capacity he served, always providing his very best at all times.
John’s father served in the Suffolk Regiment. There is a picture of him and John’s mother in the museum; his father dressed in uniform on their wedding day, something John was so very proud of and we all knew he was a very, very proud Suffolk soldier for all of his life.
Always very smartly turned out, especially for Minden Day, he really came into his own dressed in a blazer with The Suffolk Badge very prominently displayed, flannels, black very shiny shoes, black beret with roses and of course medals. John loved Minden day and would be there for the preparation along with his colleagues on the Saturday morning and again early Sunday ready for the grand day and he was so willing to do anything, talk to anyone or help on any task he was asked. John loved to be with serving or ex-servicemen and enjoyed being a member of The Royal Anglian Club and of course his very special Suffolk Regiment Old Comrades Association. He would be sat at the bar on the 4th Tues of the month with his coke, always willing to help and even would call Bingo if asked, but the one thing he did not do was play Bingo ! He attended all the various functions that the Suffolk OCA organised bringing sister Tilley along for company and they always enjoyed the occasions.
John attended many of the Veterans Trips organised by the Association, travelling through France and Holland and into Belgium. He was always ready to march and parade as and when told. First on the coach and first up in the mornings, assisting the Old boys or anyone else he could help. John loved those trips and made many very good friends who all greeted him on arrival and made a great fuss on his departure.
I know John had a very difficult time as a young father but so typical of him he carried out the task lovingly and, with pride, he would talk of his family and would gladly exchange news with others of their activities and travels.
During the latter years John became very involved in the refurbishment of the Regimental Museum at the Keep. He, with a valiant few, would work for hours drilling up to 100 holes in those massive walls with a re-chargeable drill that he would take home and recharge for the next onslaught. Tim Davies actually let him have one day off during that period as John was having new windows fitted. He was happy.
Regrettably, as we are aware, John became very ill over the last year and although suffering considerably continued to attend the museum for his duties. He refused to admit that he was ill and we all let him think he had fooled us. My friend John Hunns, a loving father, a Soldier of the Queen a true friend to one and all. A gentleman who was never heard to say a bad word about anyone, ‘Stabilis’ was his motto.’   HSB

A guard of honour, all wearing Suffolk ties, formed up in the Salvation Army Citadel in Thetford. The coffin was draped with the Suffolk flag on which rested John’s beret and medals. In attendance was the black draped standard of the Bury St Edmunds Branch of the Royal British Legion. Nearly £400 was collected for the Royal Anglian Regimental Museum in Bury St Edmunds. Col Tony Taylor, his 6 V Bn R Anglian Regt CO, Maj Stan Bullock MBE, representing the Suffolk Regt and 6 V Bn R Anglian Regt, Maj John L Raybould TD and SSI Christine Forsdike, representing Suffolk ACF, attended the funeral. The hymns were 'Onward Christian soldiers', 'Abide with me and 'The day thou gavest, Lord, is ended'. He departed to the tune of the Regimental March of The Suffolk Regiment, Speed The Plough. John is survived by his children, grand children and great grand children.   JLR

Capt Dougie James of Ipswich died in October 2007 aged 73. A former WO1 Royal Anglian Staff Clerk, he then served for 21 years with Suffolk ACF as County HQ Admin Offr, retiring in 1998 as a Captain. Known as ‘Dougie’ he was born and educated in India. At his funeral, well attended by many serving and retired Royal Anglian and SACF adults/officers, the black-draped Suffolk Regiment standards of the Bury St Edmunds and Ipswich Branches were carried by Colin Smith and Taff Gillingham. His Union Flag draped coffin entered to the playing of the song ‘Blueberry Hill’ and was followed by his medals borne on a red velvet cushion. In a moving service we listened to memories of their childhood in India, recalled by his sister Daphne Palesky, and heard the Stevie Wonder song ‘I just called to say I love you’ with the reading of the collects of the Suffolk and Royal Anglian Regiments. Dougie departed to ‘Speed the Plough’. He is survived by his wife Iris, his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Below is the eulogy by Major Stan Bullock MBE:
‘Clerk extraordinaire, Soldier of Talent, Friend and Saviour to many but most of all husband and father devoted. I know very little of Doug’s early life apart from knowing he met and fell in love with Iris at a very early age and kept that love and adoration for the whole of his life.
Doug joined 1 Suffolk in Trieste in 1953 and I joined them in Wuppertal in 1955.
We did not know each other then but as the years went by we became serving friends which is so very different from an ordinary friendship. It is a friendship for life and has more bonding owing to the various actions and activities that one has gone through. As time went by with amalgamations and many moves around the World promotions were achieved and marriages and families appeared, the friendship between those families also grew and strengthened. Every member of our group of friends celebrated all the occasions that families celebrated from births and christenings to marriages and anniversaries Parties were held at homes and in various Messes where each and every one of us joined in and enjoyed the occasions. Doug was always there sitting quietly watching what was happening and making jokes about one and all. Drinks were one of his favourite tricks. He violently refused to buy the first round and we would claim he ‘Was a tight Git’ but then he would insist on buying his share and always the last round. Our group being Roy and Pat Sharpe, John and Aura Watson, John and Norma Reid and many others just to name a few’ with Jenny and I being in the group also. A wonderful time to be living and to have such lovely friends.
Doug was very clerically minded and became installed in the Hall of fame (The Orderly) room within the Bn HQ as a clerk and very quickly became a fount of knowledge regarding military law (and customs) to all of us not so intellectually minded. He had a memory bank that was absolutely phenomenal as he could recite regimental number Christian names and enlistment dates from memory of nearly all of the Bn members especially mine as he always responded to my phone calls with my regimental number and enlistment date! His promotions through his service were highly deserved as he worked very hard for them.
Doug served in Trieste BAOR Cyprus Berlin British Guiana Aden and NI. In addition to various UK postings. Doug was awarded the GSM for Cyprus and the 1962 GSM with clasps for South Arabia and The Radfan and various tours of Northern Ireland,.
On leaving the Regular Forces Doug’s Military Discharge book was recorded with ‘Military Service Exemplary’. An entry that was so very highly deserved.
The word exemplary was to follow him for the rest of his life as a husband, father, grandfather and to his great joy, a great-grandfather - he doted on his daughters, grandchildren and his great grand-children.
We would gather at Regimental gatherings and Doug could be seen in the middle of the groups of colleagues, chatting and retelling stories as good as the rest of them. His memory would outstrip all of the others and roars of laughter could be heard coming from the group. Doug loved attending the reunions as did Iris. They would appear with various members of the family and proudly move around chatting to all of the groups.
On leaving the Regular Forces Doug and Iris took on the Halberd Inn in Ipswich as landlord and landlady and what a fantastic job they made of it. For eight and a half years they ran the place with humour, efficiency, and most of all, a friendship for all and sundry. Needless to say they were sadly missed when they left.
Meanwhile, Doug had become a member of Suffolk ACF and was commissioned 2Lt on 8 Nov 1989, promoted Captain on 22 Oct 98. His wealth of knowledge on military matters was a tremendous benefit to the ACF and his requirements for high standards stood the ACF well in all of their various inspections. Doug retired on reaching the age of 65 and again became very involved with his beloved family.
Wherever Doug worked or served he was an asset to not only his beloved Regiment but to his Queen, country and the public and will be very sorely missed. All who came into contact with him respected him and, in many cases, loved him dearly.
Please, after the blessing at the end of the service the Regimental March of The Suffolk Regiment will be played. Normally we would stand for this item but Iris has asked that we bend the rules and clap our hands to the base drum as we celebrate the life of Dougie.
As the bearer party leaves the Church please turn and face the aisle and pay your respects to an exemplary person.’    JLR and Maj Stan Bullock MBE

Afternote Apr 08: From the Dec 07 'Castle' (by Lt Col Dan Baily):
I regret I did not know until I saw the notice of his death that Douglas James had served as an admin officer with the TA for many years.
But I knew him years before that (can it really be 40?) when he was Orderly Room Clerk and then Orderly Room Sgt of the 1st Bn after we had returned from Aden to Celle in 1965-68. At the time I was the Intelligence 0fficer and then Adjutant to the late Lt Col Tim Creasey, a staff-training education in itself (partly going back to Creasey's own post-war experience as Adjutant to the legendary and awe-inspiring Lt Col 'Uncle Bob' Turner-Cain, CO 1 R Norfolk in Schloss Neuhaus).
CSgt James was a real tower of strength in the key job as Chief Clerk, especially to me in those days before there was a JDSC (Junior Defence Staff College) to teach young officers 'joined-up writing' and before Asst Adjutants became the fashion. No PCs on every desk either. Everything was handwritten, typed onto 'skins' by Lillian (Mrs John/QM Tech) Bedford on an immense Adler manual typewriter, checked by the Adjutant and then by the Chief Clerk and run-off on the Gestetner duplicator. Ah, those were the days ! I can still remember the reproachful but triumphant look on the Chief's face when he could come back with an error he had found. Doug took immense pride in the Battalion and everything he did at its hub. He was immensely conscientious and painstaking but never 'boring' or pompous about his work and he had a sardonic sense of humour that leavened the weight of the never-ending bumph in the trays. It was always good to see him first thing in the morning (he always seemed to be first in) and I for one will value my memories of him.

Aaron McLureAaron McClure on 23 Aug 2007, aged 19. He was a cadet in Ipswich Guards Det, C Coy, 2003-2006, and left as a LCpl to join the R Anglian Regt. He was a great lad with lots of life, into sports.
From the MoD site: It is with profound sadness that the Ministry of Defence must confirm the deaths of Ptes Aaron James McClure, Robert Graham Foster and John Thrumble from 1st Bn The Royal Anglian Regt who were killed in Afghanistan on Thu 23 Aug 2007.
The 3 soldiers, all serving in 7 Pl B 'SUFFOLK' Coy, were killed when the platoon came under accurate fire from a determined Taliban force during a fighting patrol to disrupt enemy activity and reassure the local population north west of Kajaki, in northern Helmand Province, southern Afghanistan.
During the ensuing fire fight air support was requested from 2 US F15 aircraft to engage the enemy positions and it was then that a bomb tragically struck the compound where the 3 soldiers and their section were located. An emergency helicopter was tasked to assist, however, sadly Ptes McClure, Foster and Thrumble were pronounced dead at the scene.
2 other soldiers were also injured in the incident. The injured soldiers were evacuated by helicopter to the medical facility at Camp Bastion for treatment.
The events surrounding the incident are subject to an investigation.
Pte Aaron James McClure, aged 19, from Ipswich, nicknamed 'Troy', enlisted into the British Army in March 2006 and having completed training as a rifleman at the Infantry Training Centre Catterick, joined the 1st Bn, The Royal Anglian Regt in Oct the same year. He had recently participated in exercises in the UK and Kenya.
As a rifleman in 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy Pte McClure had been serving in Helmand Province in Afghanistan since Mar 2007 on his first operational tour. During this time he had been involved in numerous fierce engagements with the Taliban frequently at close range, often in dangerous situations and in the most demanding of environments. 'Troy' quickly established himself as a highly capable, motivated and brave soldier.
His quiet, unassuming nature was founded on an inner confidence that saw him excel at a very early stage in his career; he was a rising star within the Coy who had a bright future. Widely regarded as a first-rate soldier, notable for his complete reliability and commitment, it was in contact with the enemy where he displayed his true ability working selflessly to support the remainder of his platoon without complaint; characteristics he will be remembered for. Pte McClure's friendly, modest exterior belied a soldier who was focused, physically and mentally tough, and intent on doing the utmost for his team-mates. His presence will be missed immensely by all within the Company.
Lieutenant-Colonel Stuart Carver, Commanding Officer 1st Bn the Royal Anglian Regiment, said: 'At 19 years-old, Pte Aaron McClure was already a veteran of over forty engagements with the enemy. It is tragic that where the Taliban had failed, it was an accident that has taken him from us. Loyal, hard working and highly professional, he constantly surpassed the standards expected, and his loss is a bitter blow to the whole Battalion. We will never forget him, and our thoughts are with his family and friends at this most difficult of times.'
Maj Tony Borgnis, Officer Commanding B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Pte McClure, although relatively new to the Coy, was an exceptionally professional and highly motivated soldier. He rapidly established himself as one of the hardest working and most dependable soldiers I have. He consistently carried out even the most demanding tasks to the highest of standards. His actions epitomised the very best qualities of the British Infantry, in general, and the Royal Anglian Regt in particular. He was a true and loyal friend to all those he served with, always placing the needs of others above his own. His loss is tragic and deeply felt by all members of the Company. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones.'
Lt George Seal-Coon, Pl Comd 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said:
'Pte Aaron McClure was a rising star of the platoon. As a soldier, he displayed the greatest levels of professionalism and dedication in the most arduous and dangerous of environments. As a friend he was utterly selfless and reliable. His strength of character was ever an inspiration to those who worked and lived alongside him. We are all devastated by his loss.'
Sgt 'Woody' Woodrow, Pl Sgt, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Pte 'Troy' McClure was an amazingly robust soldier with potential beyond his young years. He was always helpful and dependable in the thick of things. We will miss him deeply and he will never be forgotten.'
LCpl Stevie Veal, Section Commander, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'Troy, as most people knew him, was a smart and intelligent soldier whose aspirations inspired his peers and even his commander. He was more than capable of becoming a fine junior non commissioned officer, which is what he wanted above all. He was a model for the British Army. We will always remember him, and it was more than a privilege to serve with him.'
Pte Aaron 'Ronnie' Barker, 7 Pl B (Suffolk) Coy said: 'McClure, known to most of his mates as 'Troy'' was a hard working and very determined member of 7 Pl who would 'work his socks off' to achieve the best results he could. 'Troy' had a lot of ambition and would have gone far in the Army. He will be missed very much by all of us in 7 Pl and the Coy. Rest in peace mate and my thoughts are with your family.'
Aaron's family said: 'Aaron was a wonderful son to Lorraine and Karl and grandson to Vi, Allan, Linda and Lenny. He was loved by his aunts, uncles, cousins and numerous friends alike. He was also looked up to by his brothers, Lewis, Daniel and Ryan.
'Aaron loved the army life to which he was dedicated and had aspirations for promotion. He was never happier than when with family who knew Aaron as a bright, happy, handsome lad who would do anything for anyone.
'Aaron was a light in our lives now extinguished, always loved, never forgotten.
'Our thoughts and prayers are with other families affected b
y this tragic incident.'
Ipswich Mayor, Inga Lockington, said: 'The whole town was thinking of the 19-year-old and his family. As the Mayor of Ipswich I send my condolences to the family and friends of Aaron McClure who tragically died as a result of friendly fire.'
Accompanied by a lone piper, his funeral was attended by dozens of former and serving Cadets and Adults as well as many Senior Officers, NCOs and soldiers from the 1st Bn the Royal Anglian Regt.
   Capt Ron McDaid, JLR, Ipswich East Anglian Daily Times and MoD

Col Alan Munro TD on 9 December 2007, aged 80 - 'one of a kind'© Maj John L Raybould TD.
Tributes have been paid to a 'kind, energetic man who loved life and would do anything for anybody'.
With acknowledgement to the Bury Free Press newspaper.Although he was probably best known in Bury St Edmunds as the former head postmaster of the town's post office, Col Munro was also involved in a number of clubs and organisations, including the Rotary Club, East Anglia Parachute Regimental Association, Post Office Veterans, the Fellowship of Head Post Masters and Friends of Kevelaer, Bury's twin town in Germany.
His wife Sue, 55, said: 'He always had everybody in tears with laughter. He was an excellent organiser. Someone wrote on a card: "Wherever he is, he will be organising something". He was always busy doing something. He loved life - he was one of a kind - a real character. There was quite an age gap between us and someone once asked why I was married to him. I said because it was never boring. He was always on the go, doing something, telling me about something he had done or someone he had met. It's amazing how many people he knew. He was very much an outside person and very sociable.'
As a Friend of Kevelaer, twin town of Bury St Edmunds, and with the help of RAF Honington, he managed to export a traditional-style telephone box to the German city.
Col Munro retired 20 years ago but kept very active, working out in the gym 5 times a week, as well as enjoying walking in the Lake District.
After his WW2 service ended in 1949 with the 5th Scottish Parachute Bn, Col Munro served with two TA regiments, rising to 2nd in command of the 2nd Bn Lancastrian Volunteers and later as the commanding officer of the 4th Volunteer Bn, Queen's Lancashire Regiment.
Col Munro also represented the Army as a marksman in rifle contests across Europe and America.
He is survived by his wife Sue and children Andrew, Richard and Deborah.
© Major John L Raybould TD(In 2007 we met after a gap of many years at the Annual SACF Dinner, right, and he didn't seem a day older - though he was 80 ! Alan was President of the Rotary Club of Bury St Edmunds 1994-5 and latterly Attendance Officer. Oddly, the SACF Webmaster was President of the Rotary Club of Watton and District 2000-2001 and is now the Attendance Officer of the RC of Beccles. We laughed as we compared our ailments - my 2 hearing aids, false teeth and a plethora of pills.)

To Sue and the family, we send our regrets at the passing of a fine man, a former Commandant of Suffolk ACF.
Lt Ted Warren of Suffolk ACF informs
us Col Munro was also President of the Suffolk branch of the Parachute Regiment Association.

Our SACF Stand for the County Standards was presented by Col Alan, right.

With acknowledgement to Paul Bloomfield of the Bury Free Press newspaper.   JLR

The Suffolk ACF Webmaster would be pleased to receive further details and expand these often inadequate obituaries

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A Different Christmas Poem

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.
Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
Transforming the yard to a winter delight.
The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.
My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,
Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
n perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
So I slumbered, and perhaps I started to dream.\
The sound wasn’t loud, and it wasn’t too near,
But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.
Perhaps just a cough, I didn’t quite know,
Then the sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.
My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
And I crept to the door just to see who was near.
Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.

A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.
What are you doing? I asked without fear,
Come in this moment, its freezing out here!
Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!

For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts,
To the window that danced with a warm fires light.
Then he sighed and he said: Its really all right,
I’m out here by choice. I’m here every night.
It’s my duty to stand at the front of the line,
That separates you from the darkest of times.
No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
I’m proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
My Gramps died at Pearl on a day in December,
Then he sighed: That’s a Christmas Gram always remembers.
My dad stood his watch in the jungles of Nam,
And now it is my turn and so, here I am.
I’ve not seen my own son in more than a while,
But my wife sends me pictures, he’s sure got her smile.

Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
The red, white, and blue - an American flag.
I can live through the cold and the being alone,
Away from my family, my house and my home.
I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
I can carry the weight of killing another,
Or lay down my life with my sister and brother.
Who stand at the front against any and all,
To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.

So go back inside, he said. Harbor no fright,
Your family is waiting and I’ll be all right.
But isn’t there something I can do, at the least,
Give you money, I asked, or prepare you a feast?
It seems all too little for all that you’ve done,
For being away from your wife and your son.
Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret.

Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
To fight for our rights back at home while were gone,
To stand your own watch, no matter how long.
For when we come home, either standing or dead,
To know you remember we fought and we bled.
Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.

Originally from: LCdr Jeff Giles, SC, USN, 30th Naval Construction Regt, OIC, Logistics Cell 1, Al Taqqadum, Iraq.

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